Tuesday, August 31, 2004

Grandmother's House - 5 - A Strange Affinity

Before moving on to the last room I must pause here to tell you about my Nan's strange affinity with cats.  You see she never bought a cat and was never given a cat but cats she always had.

Shortly after her marriage a stray cat came to her door. She took it in and it remained with her for the rest of its life.  Within forty eight hours of its death another cat appeared out of nowhere and the same thing happened.  Thus it went on - within a couple of days of the demise of the last cat, another one would appear, sometimes at the back door and sometimes at the front. On occasion they would just walk in.  Some cats were old when they appeared, others were sick but whatever time they had left they lived it out with her.

With her gift of the second-sight and people coming to her for advice on all matters it is a sobering thought to realize that centuries ago she would have been classed as a Witch and possibly hanged.

For some reason that none of us ever fathomed, each cat had exactly the same name - "Tutney".  Where she got this name from we will never know but every cat that came received the same name from her, male or female it made no difference, although the cats were usually male.

Nan always had a cat on her knee as she held court at the kitchen table, her cats followed her everywhere.

The last Tutney never left her.  In her last few years, bedridden and with hardly any sight left, Tutney slept nearly all the time on her chest or stomach and she would stroke him for hour upon hour. He would only leave her to eat or to answer the call of nature.

Came the fateful day.  Aunt Bet who had so lovingly cared for Nan all through her declining years had to go into hospital herself, it could not be put off or she would lose her leg.  My Mother could not take Nan because there was no spare bedroom. In the end it had to be decided that Nan would go into hospital whilst Bet received her treatment in another. Everyone did their best to explain to her but  Nan begged and pleaded not to go, she wanted to live out the rest of her time in her own home and eventually pass away in the same room as her beloved Will.  Nothing could be done.  The ambulance came to take Nan away. Tutney went outside and sat watching her being carefully loaded into the ambulance, then he went back into the house, wandered around Nan's room as if taking one last look and then he left the house never to return or  even to be seen again.  Tutney had sensed what none of us could possibly know - Nan would not be coming back. 

Nan died within days, I think of a broken heart. She just gave up once she was forced to leave her beloved home.

No cat ever lived in or entered my Grandmother's house again.

 

Excuse me for wandering off at a tangent but I wanted to put this entry about Nan and her cats on before I proceed to complete the story of my Grandmother's house.

 

 

 

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

The story of your Nan was so compelling.  I enjoyed it immensely.  Thank you so much for sharing.  I believe animals have a six sense.  Sometimes a seventh and eigth.  You story was so beautiful.  Thanks so much!
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Anonymous said...

Thank you for sharing this story.  A very touching read.

Anonymous said...

That is so sad your gran died like that and not in her own home. I am sure she would have understood the reasons for this but it must have been awful at the time. I feel like I know your gran after you lovely tales from her house, such lovely memeories that can never be taken away. thank you for sharing them with us :)...........Jules xx
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Anonymous said...

What an interesting entry, You know animals pick up on things before we humans do, your grandmothers cat must have been there to comfort her. I loved this entry I cant wait to read more. God Bless you my friend:)

Anonymous said...

I've loved reading the stories about your Nan, a true down to earth lady and you write them so interestingly, they're really a compelling read.  This last one with Tutney....a great story.  I can see your very proud of her as you should be, she was a dear lady and I've enjoyed hearing about her.  xxR.

Anonymous said...

What a touching story. Thank you for sharing it. I have just found your journal. I am in London and my journal is called Temporarily Disabled. Please read it if you have the time. Love Conniex

Anonymous said...

I love this entry.  Your grandmother definitely had a gift and for whatever reason the cats picked up on it. The part about the last Tutney made me feel sad.  He knew his time with her was over.  I've said it before and I'll say it again, I love reading your memoirs.  I'm so happy you're sharing them with us.  Take care, Jeannette.
Susan

Anonymous said...

Beautiful Story!
V

Anonymous said...

"With her gift of the second-sight and people coming to her for advice on all matters it is a sobering thought to realize that centuries ago she would have been classed as a Witch and possibly hanged."

I'm very glad I don't live in that time ;o) Some great entries here, and I love the photos and pics you're posting.

Anonymous said...

That is an amazing story, and cats are amazing creatures.  I'm glad your grandmother had Tutney.

Anonymous said...

What a lovely story.  Thank you for sharing it with me.  Pennie

Anonymous said...

What a great story.. that you shared... I loved reading it.. I love all your stories..:) Mel

Anonymous said...

It is said that cats have mystical powers to heal the soul as well as the body. There have been numerous instances of nursing homes having cats that would stand guard over ill residents until their final hour or at other times nuzzle close until the resident regained full health. There is much about the animal kingdom that we mere humans do not understand.

Anonymous said...

I hope you have made permanent copies of these stories Jeannette.  They will be greatly appreciated by your family for many gererations to come.  Have throughly enjoyed reading ever sentence as well as the admiring comments from your readers.   mark