Sunday, August 13, 2006

Rosemary - In Memorium

 

                                            ROSEMARY

                                      16th September 1974 -
                                        11th August 2006

This posting is in loving memory of a very special person, Rosemary G.  -  the beloved daughter of our friends and neighbours, Jackie and Ron. 

Rosemary was not as other people, she had very special needs. Jackie and Ron devotedly cared for her all her life. Although she was never able to attend school, obtain employment or do any of the things we all take for granted, Rosemary managed to touch the lives of everyone that knew her, which is a rare gift and she was deeply loved, even the nurses who tended to her in the last few days of her life, loved her.

She passed peacefully into the arms of our Lord at 3.50 a.m. on Friday morning.

 
Welcome home, dear soul, welcome home,
To the place God wants you to be,
Prepared for you  a long time ago,
Your place for eternity.
 
Down through the years  God watched you
He claimed you before you were born,
You were moulded, guided and taught
Through His love you grew and were formed.
 
He gave you a good life on earth
And saw that your needs were met
He gave you fair shares of sadness and mirth
And gave up His Son for your debt.
 
God counted each hair on your precious head
Ane he planned in advance all your years,
He knew each day what lay ahead
And He was aware of your prayers and tears.
 
Though you've left your loved ones behind
It is just in a physical way
And now you'll be closer to them
In a more wonderful, spiritual way.
 
A banquet's been spread in your honour
God is the Heavenly Host,
The guests are those gone before you
That on earth you had missed the most.
 
Welcome home, dear soul, welcome home,
Tell your family and friends not to grieve,
You're welcomed now at your Father's throne,
Totally whole and pain free.
 
    Copyright Virginia Ellis.
 
 
My lovely friends and readers, I ask you to offer a prayer up for dear Rosemary and also to pray for Jackie and Ron and their other daughters in their time of grief and loss.
 
Jackie knows that those of you in the prayer group have been offering up prayers for her and for Rosemary and for the family and she has asked me to thank you very much for your love.
 
Jackie has been confined to bed for several weeks after breaking a bone in her spine and she has been battling with constant pain, so please pray for her as well and ask the Lord to surround her with His healing.
 
 
 

 

Death is nothing at all

I have only slipped away into the next room

I am I and you are you

Whatever we were to each other

That we are still

Call me by my old familiar name

Speak to me in the easy way you always used

Put no difference into your tone

Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow

Laugh as we always laughed

At the little jokes we always enjoyed together

Play, smile, think of me, pray for me

Let my name be ever the household word that it always was

Let it be spoken without effort

Without the ghost of a shadow in it

Life means all that it ever meant

It is the same as it ever was

There is absolute unbroken continuity

What is death but a negligible accident?

Why should I be out of mind

Because I am outofsight?

I am waiting for you for an interval

Somewhere very near

Just around the corner

All is well.

Nothing is past; nothing is lost

One brief moment and all will be as it was before 

How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!

 

Canon Henry Scott-Holland, 1847-1918, Canon of St Paul's Cathedral

 

 

45 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful memorial. Will add them all to my prayers. Love Pat

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry to hear of Rosemary's passing. I'm praying for her parents and her sisters too. I hope Jackie will soon be healed too, it must be a terrible time for them all. Jeannette xx  

Anonymous said...

Jeannette what a lovely tribute to someone who was so special to her family and friends ,God Bless all of you in your time of sorrow ,with my love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

Dear Jeannette,
This is a touching tribute to Rosemary, who must have been a special daughter to her parents. Please pass on my deepest sympathy to them both at this very difficult time. My thoughts are with them and I hope that Jackie will soon find relief from her physical suffering,
Kate.
http://journals.aol.co.uk/bobandkate/AnAnalysisofLife/

Anonymous said...

What a lovely tribute to Rosemary.

She taught us to love,
To hope beyond expectation,
to trust in that which is unseen.
She drew us together
In our anxiety,
Our moments of despairing and hopelessness,
As well as in our joys and delight,
And in her every breath
But the love she brought
into our lives will live forever.
Thank you for giving her to us.
Thank you for the blessing
that she will always be.
Thank you for the love we
would never have known,
but for her
and her brief days with us.
Thank you for Rosemary
our blessed child of grace.
Amen.

Anonymous said...

This is a very beautiful memorial to Rosemary. May God be with her family and friends during this time and may God bestow his healing touch upon Jackie that her back will be healed. Hugs, Helen

Anonymous said...

That is a lovely memorial. Please convey my deepest sympathies to the family and wish them every strength in this difficult time. May she rest in peace.

Anonymous said...

May our dear Lord comfort you and your family at this time of great sorrow. My prayers are with you all.  Much love and deepest sympathies to you and your loved ones.  'On Ya' - ma

Anonymous said...

To Jackie, Ron & family,  So sorry to hear of the passing of Rosemary.  Our thoughts are with you all.  We hope that this beautiful journal entry provides you with a little comfort at this sad and difficult time.  With love from Becky, Dean, Nathan & Daniel x

Anonymous said...

For Jackie and Ron.. I offer you my prayers of comfort..may you have peace of mind knowing that your sweet daughter was a truly a special soul put on this earth to bring you joy... I send  warm healing wishes to help you and your family in this time of grief.. to our sweet Jeanette.. bless you for a beautiful tribute to a special lady...God Bless one and all...
Lyn Florida USA

Anonymous said...

DEAR JACKIE AND RON;
I AM SO TERRIBLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF YOUR DAUGHTER...I AWILL KEEP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN MY PRAYERS...PRAYING THAT THE HEAVENLY FATHER WILL SEND THE COMFORT AND PEACE THAT YOU SO NEED AT THIS TIME...PLEASE KNOW THAT WE IN J-LAND COME TOGETHER AND SEND OUR HEARTFELT SYMPATHY.
SINCERELY,
CARLENE

Anonymous said...

MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU BOTH AT THIS VERY SAD TIME. LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU. jOANNE

Anonymous said...

you and your family are in my prayers during this diffulct time just know that God is with you and will carry you through she is sitting at his feet right now just talking and loving our Lord how awasome is that God bless kelley

Anonymous said...

Jeannette what a beautiful tribute to a very special person ~ I pray that Jackie ~ Ron and their family will have the strength to to get through this very sad time ~ Ally

Anonymous said...

So very sorry Jackie Ron and your Daughters for your loss,God Bless you all and give you the strengh to get though this,also wishing you well again Jackie and free from pain.Jeannette ,a lovely tribute to your dear friends.........Jeanx

Anonymous said...

Dear Jackie & Ron,
So sorry to hear of this, sending my sincere condolences. Will be keeping the family, & Rosemary's friends in my prayers. Praying that God gives you strength, dear ones...& that you find some comfort from your grieving. Know that sweet Rosemary is in the arms of a Angel & is at peace.
God Bless,
Sugar

Anonymous said...

You are all in my prayers and thoughts during this time.  I am so very sorry for you loss.
hugs
d

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter and for your health problems.  I'm praying for you....  Linda

Anonymous said...

Dearest Jackie and Ron, please know that we have been praying for your family and have been touched by your circumstance.  So many miles away and we also have a special needs child.  We know how much you loved your Rosemary and how you will miss her.  Jackie, I am so sorry about your pain.  I will pray specifically for that and of course we will pray for you and Ron in your time of grief.  Many blessings in the Lord, Penny http//journals.aol.com/firestormkids04/FromHeretoThere

Anonymous said...

Dearest Jackie & Ron,

I know words are of little comfort at a time such as this, yet my heart wants to reach out to you and this is the only way I have.  I am sure you have hundreds of stories how Rosemary brought you joy or comfort over the years and I know you will miss her deeply.  But Rosemary has finally "grown up" and she has moved out to a Wonderful Country.  She is a Servant of the King and living in a Mansion.  She's happy, blessed and safe in the arms of our Lord.  

Please take some comfort in that.  As the two of you are the ones with the hard road for now.  It was no accident that Rosemary was part of your lives.  God knew which souls could love, care and nuture her.  And He didn't want you to miss the blessing of her in your life.  Now you can honor her and Him by living each day that is left to you here to it's fullest.  Remembering with love, pride and peace the time you shared.

I pray God brings all healing and comfort to you.

Love in Christ,
Barbara Hollyfield  (Sisters in Christ)
Caneyhead, TX

Anonymous said...

Jackie & Ron,
Want to let you know that my prayers are with you in this time of need. God bless you.
Lisa

Anonymous said...

Dear Jackie and Ron,

My deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved Rosemary.  A short but precious life.

Love  Sandra xx

Anonymous said...

My heartfelt sympathy for you at this sad time Jackie and Ron. In your hearts she'll always stay, special and beautiful as her very first day. Rache

Anonymous said...

What a caring thought and deed. May Rosemary rest in peace. Praying for her family and  friends. May they find all the support and love they need to alleviate their grief.  

Anonymous said...

ah will be praying for this family as they miss thier beloved rosemary.

Anonymous said...

Dear Jackie and Ron,

I can only imagine how awful it must be to lose a very dear daughter, I am sure she brought you much joy during her short life.

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.  

Thank you Jeannette for giving us the cahnce to add our condolences.

Best wishes, Pat

Anonymous said...

My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Missie

Anonymous said...

Jackie and Ron,
I know not the pain that you must feel for losing your daughter. I do know how good it feels having a daughter's love. Hold on to that feeling. Remember all of the wonderful memories that you have of your precious Rosemary. YTour angel is with you always. She will be preparing a home for you with her in Heaven. When you see her again she will be whole in body, like she was whole in spirit here on Earth.
Celeste, Georgia-United States

Anonymous said...

Dear Ron and Jackie,

I want you to know that although we may not know each other I am praying for your family. I am so sorry for your loss here on earth. God has another angel now. May God bless you both and may you receive the peace of the Lord during this hard time.

Many Blessings to you....
Louise (Miami, FL)

Anonymous said...

Dearest Ron and Jackie:

I heard of you through the prayer group I belong to online and I wanted to tell you that you and your family have been in my prayers for a while now.  I was touched when I heard that your daughter has passed on this last Friday.  I know that in our hearts, we grieve the loss of someone that's close to us and that it is painful.  I encourage you to think of all the love you showed this beautiful and unique child God gave you for a time.  Remember that this angel is now in heaven with the Lord, running, talking, laughing and at peace.  I pray that her presence here on earth will touch the lives of many and that the Lord will be glorified through it all.  May the Lord comfort your hearts and bless you for the devotion and love you gave to your daughter through all the struggles and trials.  God bless you.

Anonymous said...

Jackie, Ron and family...I am sending you my deepest sympathy and prayers at this time.  Know that J-Land will continue to pray for healing peace.  Rosemary is at peace now and in loving hands.  xx Chris

Anonymous said...

Dear Ron and Jackie; All is well for those who are in Christ.  How exciting to think that you will see your daughter again- in her completed form- complete in Christ. She is absolutely free now.  Your family is in our prayers.  Sincerely, Jeff and Michelle :-)

Anonymous said...

I pray the names of the people here bring some measure of comfort to you. You have my deepest sympathy, Paula

Anonymous said...

Dear Jackie and Ron,

I'm so sorry you lost your dear Rosemary.  Just know she is at peace in Jesus' arms now.  You both will be in my thoughts and prayers for your health and peace.

Darlene Johnston
Boonville, IN  US

Anonymous said...

Dearest Jackie and Ron, My sympathies to you regarding Rosemary.  I know she was a special special person.  No, she IS a special special person.  Because she continues to live on, she is with the Lord.  
I know your heart must be broken, but you will see her again some day.
Until then, carry on.  That is what she would want.  Yes, you can grieve, but carry on.
Know that I will be praying,

Krissy

Anonymous said...

words cant begin to express the sadness in my heart... please know that you will be in my prayers.... rosemary sounded like she was a wonderful daughter!!!!! god bless you......love...gina

Anonymous said...

Deepest sympathy to you both and know that Rosemary is in our prayers.

Anonymous said...

My heart felt condolences to you both, and to your family.
I haven't the words to say how I feel for you all.
Sara   xxx

Anonymous said...

My sympathies to Jackie and Ron during your time of loss of your daughter.    She was blessed to have your love and care.     I am hoping that you (Jackie) will have a quick recovery from your spinal injury.     mark

Anonymous said...

Jackie and Ron,

Your hearts must be heavy with the loss of Rosemary. I know you will find comfort in your friends and family. Hold fast to your Faith, He will see you through.

Vivian

Anonymous said...

How sad I was to hear of the death of your lovely daughter.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

I just wanted to say its so hard to let go of a child, but you have to remember she is in no pain now and just remember all the good times and love in the past she has giving you both, God Bless your daughter ROSEMARY,,,,,,,,, DIANE

Anonymous said...

Dear Jackie and Ron,
An invisable friend is thinking of you and the family and have you in my prayers especially today and in the days ahead.
God Bless
From sybil (Wiltshire)

Anonymous said...

My Deepest Sympathy to you both for the loss of your precious child. She will be missed by you both, but one day when God feels the time has come, he will call upon you to be by your little angels side once more. God Bless.
Cindy

Anonymous said...

Of all days for me to read this entry and poem...I am on my way in a little while to see my Mom off on her last journey in Missouri. She passed a way Wednesday night. I got your email. Thank you.

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