Saturday, April 28, 2007

Too Soon? You Be The Judges

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Some of you will be so pleased for us, some might think it is a little too soon.  We are just happy.

We have a new cat.  He arrived into our lives around  9 p.m. last night.

When we lost Tinker yesterday our grief was heartfelt and we had thought that was the end of a long chapter.  We will always miss him, he was unique as all animals are.  They are all characters in their own right and you do not replace one with another.

The fates have always worked in a strange way in our lives.  The sudden decline and loss of Pip last year was totally unexpected, not only by us but by the vet himself.  He had given Pip another 18 months in his assessment.  Yet, had Pip not left us when he did we would never have had Jack.

We had not expected that Tinker would pass away yesterday.  One again a strange quirk - Mike brought in the local paper.  Something he does not usually do.  We used to have it regularly but with all the free newspapers being pushed through the door, t.v. and the computer we felt it was a waste of money.  When he returned he found me sitting in the garden staring at Tinker's grave, my eyes red and sore from weeping.  He told me to have a look at the paper to take my mind off and that is what I did.  I read some interesting local news and then....................it was inevitable, I found myself looking at the Pets section. 

I called to Mike.  I told him how typical that now, of all times, when we had spent years looking, there were ginger kittens for sale.  Mike asked me if I would like one providing any were still available.  This surprised me because Mike has always been more a dog man.  He said he thought it would be just what I needed with my radiotherapy coming up, a new young life in the house, something to play with, and when the radiotherapy makes me tired and I lie on the bed, a kitten could curl up beside me. He said it would be good therapy for me and take the edge of my grief.  Mike is such a wonderful husband.

I heard myself saying yes despite the fact that I felt I had been run over from the events of the day.  We rang the number.  We did not get the usual "sorry, they have all gone." 

A very nice man said he had three left.  He admitted that they were not completely ginger, they did have white on them. I said that was no problem as long as the colour was predominantly ginger.  He promised to hold them until Mike went along.

Mike, bless him, rushed through his dinner and took off.  I asked him to ring me when he got there and tell me what the kittens were like and whether they were healthy.  Well, he did ring but only to tell me that he was on his way home with a kitten, he had fallen in love with him and knew that I would as well.

He was right, I loved him from the second I saw him.

This morning he has been to the vet.  Perfect kitten, he will be a small cat like his mother according to the vet.  Too little to have his jabs yet, wait another couple of weeks.  So now I have regular feeding to do and, of course, I cannot stop petting him and stroking him.

It is strange though that this happened and not for the first time in our lives.  We were meant to have this little creature, it was destined to be.  I know that Tinker would be pleased for us, he was a gentle cat with not a bad trait in him.

So, my friends, I hope you will be pleased for us.  I know that some of you have never been able to face getting another pet. I understand that.  But, this little bundle found us - just as a couple of you commented - that a cat would find us.  I hope he has a long and happy life and I am sure he will speed me on my way to full recovery.

So, without further ado, I will like you all to meet

LEO  aged 8 weeks - the new man in our lives.

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You can see how small he is next to my mascot bear which is less than six inches tall.

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Who could resist this little face? He moved slightly just as I took it so it is not as clear as the two other pictures.

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I truly did not think we would ever have another cat.  I never envisaged that something like this could happen so quickly but I truly believe that it was meant to be.

Well,  I must go and see what he is up to, I need eyes in the back of my head now!

P.S. I would like to thank the following journallers and friends for sponsoring Julie in the Race For Life.

Guido
Sybil
Terry
Antonella
Jenny

This means so much to Julie and myself.  If anyone would still like to sponsor, please see the link on the left under Other Blogs - it is at the bottom.  Thank you.

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65 comments:

Anonymous said...

i think it was a lovely idea to get the kitty!!! you are so lucky to be able to have him....i'm jelous!
love Joanne

Anonymous said...

Leo,is a very lucky little kitten ,and yes the fates have all pointed this little man to a very loving home ,there is never a right or wrong time ,but this IS RIGHT, and yes I wish him a very long and happy life ...love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

awwwwwww, he's adorable. I think this lil bundle of joy is exactly what you need. and yes, i think you'll need the eyes behind your head, lol. you definately have yourself a wonderful husband. mine woke up grouchy, the ol fart, lol. give the new lil kitty a cuddle for me please, and one from rebecca. we want to get her a kitten after we move. Have a wonderful weekend. ((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
Love,
Cindy

Anonymous said...

Great Jeannette: I'm sure Tinker approves. Hope to see many more photos of Leo as he grows up.  Bunny x

Anonymous said...

I can understand why you both fell in love with him, he is adorable.  Eileenx

Anonymous said...

awww....I want him...or her....???  What an adorable kitten...those eyes...and perky ears...and the colors...just beautiful...and yes...like Mike...I think this is just the right thing for both...or allllllll of you....hugs from KY...Ora

Anonymous said...

Tears in my eyes, so glad you have got a baby to love and yes, I am sure Tinker would approve.  We have always had ginger cats and when we lost our Jasper (named after Jasper Carrott) we "found" not one but two ginger boys within a few days.  I found them a great comfort although together they were very, very naughty!  We lost Mizzmog 3 years ago but still have Spotty, aged 14.  I wish you years of love and days full of fun with your little Leo. Hugs, Terry x

Anonymous said...

aw he looks really pretty and full of mischief too! enjoy.
luv bella xxx

Anonymous said...

He is so cute; I love ginger cats, had one myself many years ago called Amber, but mainly answered to Ratbag, lol. If he has helped relieve some of the pain of losing Tinker I am sure he will be watching and glad you are happy......Tinker may even have 'sent' him to you.

Anonymous said...

Leo is so cute! I know he'll give you lots of love. {{{ }}}
Huggies to both of you & a big hug to Mike for being such a loving hubby,
Sugar

Anonymous said...

Thank the good Lord for providing this little 'ray of sunshine' to enter your life.  He is beautiful and I hope like Leo the LIon he will have a big heart too !  You didn't say how the dogs liked having a new friend, but I imagine they are used to cats and won't have any problem adjusting to a new one.  The pictures are adorable and I know you'll never regret having another!  'On Ya' - ma

Anonymous said...

Oh Jeannette.....he is adorable.
I think he is just what you need to take your mind of of other matters. Big hugs to hubby for being so thoughtful
Jayne

Anonymous said...

He is really lovely and just what you need

Anonymous said...

He's precious!  I'd fall in love with him too.  I do agree with Mike too.. he will be great for you.  
hugs
d

Anonymous said...

Hi Jeanette,   Mary and I are SO happy for you. Leo is just SO GORGEOUS...you will have such fun with him in the coming days...When Mary got Amber all these years ago he too was a little puss....you should see him now...great big lad that he is..and Mary still gets claws in her knees when he is sitting there and Dee my wee dog "tells him" I know not how "danger about" and he leaps to his paws digging in the claws as he does and makes a dash for the door !!!  sometimes I am sure Dee does it for devilment !!   Anyway good luck with Leo and hope that you don't get too many scratches  Love Sybil xx

Anonymous said...

What a big name for that little chap to live up to Jeanette - congratulations and green eyes (envy) to you for having such a little charmer enter your lives.  It certainly is not too soon for a new pet I wish Leo a long life and for you to be beside him loving him. Love Pam.

Anonymous said...

Jeannette I am so pleased for you ~ How lovely Mike is to be so thoughtful ~ Leo is adorable I am sure it was meant to be ~ Tinker probably picked him out for you and just directed Mike to where he was waiting for you to go collect him ~ I know he will be good therapy for you ~ (Fate has a funny way of weaving it's magic) ~ Ally

Anonymous said...

((((((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU)))))))))))))))))))))))He is beatiful cat.I kno you will chrrish the good times you had with Tinker.Have a nice day.

Anonymous said...

I am sorry for the loss of your beloved Tinker.     He had to be a wonderful cat from your description of his personality.    Getting your kitten Leo by chance was a great stroke of luck.     I wish him many years in a kind and loving home where he will be happy and part of a family.     mark

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful little kitten...he is gorgeous! I would not be able to resist him! I do not think it is too soon...whatever makes you happy! Love Conniex

Anonymous said...

awwwwww what a cutie pie LEO what a percect name. I expect to see lots of pics beofre he gets too big

Anonymous said...

Well - what a delightful surprise!!!  I so hoped you would get another cat soon Jeannette, but did not expect it to happen so soon, but what better way to ease the sadness of losing Tinker. :-D

He is so-oo beautiful and looks very happy & healthy, particularly love the last pic of him - who could resist!

all the best to you all
Freda

Anonymous said...

Oh bless him, what a little sweetie and nice symetrical markings on his face and chest, My two 'kittens' always look like their paint ran, or slipped a bit. I prefer ginger and white to all ginger.

I wanted to suggest yesterday that with all that's going on a kitten was just what you needed but thought you might think it too soon, I'm so pleased for you, he'll bring lots of smiles.

Linda x.

Anonymous said...

I think it's wonderful! I agree with Mike. He will give lots of hugs. ;o) How could you not resist that adorable face...! :o) I'm very happy for you Jeannette. :o)
Lisa

Anonymous said...

Hi Jeannette ,Leo is beautiful,I  just know hes going to love living with you and Mike ,Have fun together ,I love his name ,Happy weekend ......Love Jeanxx

Anonymous said...

Awww, how sweet. I am glad that you found it and that Mike went and got it for you. Helen

Anonymous said...

What a sweet little thing..who couldn't love that face!  Hugs,TerryAnn

Anonymous said...

Perhaps just what you needed, Jeannette :-)

Anonymous said...

He is so cute, perfect for you.  My Dad always said things happen just when they're supposed to, I'm sure it is fate.  Love the name, I'm a Leo and would love a kitten called Leao, what a great name.  Have fun with Leo today!  Joni

Anonymous said...

Welcome Leo!
God Bless Tinker... may he rest in peace...
*Hugs*
heather

Anonymous said...

He's gorgeous, and it's not too soon

Hugs

Yasmin

Anonymous said...

The kitten is so adorable!!  
Missie

Anonymous said...

Oh Jeannette,  I think you did the right thing getting the gorgeous little Leo. It`s obvious to me that fate brought you both together. When we lost Hannah I was bereft but I knew there was room in our hearts for another dog. It took three months before Jake came into our lives but thank goodness he did, I can`t imagine life without him now.  Best of luck with the treatment and I`ll be praying for you. Take care my dear friend. :o)

Love Sandra xxxx

Anonymous said...

Awww, I'm not a cat person either but I think Mike is right he will help you through. He is gorgeous

Anonymous said...

this entry makes me cry just like the last one:) i am so glad you have a new kitten:) just what you needed he is a cutie. enjoy

Deb

Anonymous said...

Jeannette, Tinker would love that you got yourself another little one to comfort you and be there with you......is it too soon.....that's only for you to decide and your heart said you needed Leo to come and be with you. As for some of us being pleased and other not because you got Leo.....it's your choice dear and only yours, not ours to decide what you should do.  Leo makes you all happy....that's all that matters....enjoy your newest darling.....Arlene (AJ)

Anonymous said...

How wonderful that you have a lovely little kitten.

John.

Anonymous said...

Oh Jeannette, Leo is adorable!

Best wishes,
Leigh :-)
http://journals.aol.co.uk/edwardssoapy/LeighsWorld/"

Anonymous said...

Leo is absolutely a beautiful darling! It's never too soon to open your heart up to a loving animal in your home. Leo will definately be instrumental in helping the healing process in your health and heart. Congratulations on the newest member of your family. (Hugs) Indigo

Anonymous said...

Awww what a cute little bit!  Linda

Anonymous said...

Oh what an adorable little kitty!  He is sooooo cute and I am so happy for you.
loving you
karyl

Anonymous said...

/That little one has eyes that will melt you!  btw I have 4 cats!  love rose~

Anonymous said...

Too soon?  No such thing...especially with this cutie pie!

nancy

Anonymous said...

Never too soon to love!

Anonymous said...

What a lovely kitty...and no, it is not too soon...no judging here from me. Love the name, Leo...perfect.  I know you miss Tinker, but what you have before you now, is a gift from God...enjoy...take plenty of photos and videos, please!
Have a beautiful Sunday...hugs and much love,
Joyce

Anonymous said...

awwwwwwww he is sooooooooo cute!!!! I love him already! lol and isn't it wonderful that he found a great home and a good "mama and daddy"???!!!
love ya,
carlene

Anonymous said...

I don't think it's too soon. He's a doll baby!  Sooooo cute!  Congrats on the new member of your family! I know that the boys are going to love the new kitty!
Pam

Anonymous said...

Oh, what a sweet little boy.  I adore him.  I am sure that you are meant.  New life - can't beat it, can you?  I can't wait to hear about his progress and antics growing up with two wonderful parents!

Bless,
Susie
http://journals.aol.co.uk/susanebunn/ItAllStartsAfter50/

Anonymous said...

ohhh he is so cute your husband is right the kitten will be good to have around the house
i'm so happy for you guys
emily

Anonymous said...

Leo looks like a wonderful addition to your family.  I am so sorry for your loss of Tinker.  Leo will keep you good company and entertained while you go through your upcoming treatments.  I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sam

Anonymous said...

Jeannette I think a kitten is exactly what you need. Love him and he will love you back. He is sooooooooooo cute!

Sunny

Anonymous said...

Aw, Jeannette, I missed this.  I think it's wonderful that you have yourself a new, ginger kitty.  He looks like my Becky's kitty, Skittsy.  Bless Mike and bless you...hang in there...Love xx Chris

Anonymous said...

I knew as soon as I saw the title of this entry you were going to say you found a ginger cat, lol.... and no, no two cats are ever alike and can not replace a lost one...
I am so glad you have him to bring you comfort in the weeks to come....
He is sooooo cute!
Linda :)

Anonymous said...

Dear Jeannette, if you do have to go private, please include me as i would be so upset not to know how you are recovering. I have been reading your blogs for so long. I hope and pray all will go well for you. maggie from norwich.

Anonymous said...

Oh, my gosh, Leo is so cute!  He has the most beautiful eyes, so sparkley and bright!  What a sweetheart.  I agree with Mike!  I think he is exactly what you need right now.  He will be such a lovely little companion for you and so much fun to watch while you are getting over your treatments.  There is nothing cuter than a kitten chasing after a leaf in the garden or pouncing on his shadow.  They say there is nothing like a new love to get over an old one.  Bless Leo's little heart.  He's the luckiest kitten of the litter to have found a home with you and Mike.
Love,  Kathy

Anonymous said...

Leo is ADORABLE! I know he will bring you a lot of joy.

Anonymous said...

Dear Jeanette.  The kitten is so beautiful and I think that you have done exactly the right thing.  I have just return from my holiday and catching up on my friends.  I wish you all the luck for Wednesday, and enjoy your beautiful kitten. Kathie

Anonymous said...

Oh Jeanette, he's adorable, I'm so pleased that you have got your ginger kitten at long last, and if you feel that the time is right for you to have a new cat then who are we to judge, I'm sure he will bring you as much pleasure and happiness that Tinks did,
Love Lynne xx

Anonymous said...

What a lovely little kitten soo cute??Its never too soon to love a new pet and mike is right, its something elae for you to focus on and maybe you will worry a little less about yourself, take care,Beckie.xx

Anonymous said...

Awwww he is sooooooooooooooo cute :-)  Give him a big (well small) hug from me xx

Jenny

Anonymous said...

How adorable! What a beautiful little kitten!!!
Hugs,
Penny

Anonymous said...

You will be wonderful for each other in so many ways!! I'm so very happy for you!!!!!

:) Carol

Anonymous said...

He is beautiful! You have so much love that how could you not get him? Tinker would be pleased.

Anonymous said...

Dear Jeanette
I am so happy for you with your new cat! She is beautiful!
good luck with the race!
love,nat

Anonymous said...

He's gorgeous Jeannette. I just know Leo is going to be a great friend to you in the coming months when you most need it. Jeannette xx  http://journals.aol.co.uk/jlocorriere05/Welcometomytravels/