Saturday, October 7, 2006

Finishing Touches

A couple of questions have arisen from my previous entry. I have been asked if I have a photograph of my Great-Grandfather. Sadly, no, although there might have been one.  I do have a very worn photograph of some of his children when they were little and another of one of his sons in naval dress (handsome young man).  My Grandmother kept everything locked in the large dresser that she had in the dining-room that was later to act as a bedroom for my Grandfather and eventually for herself. Nobody was allowed to look at any of her private things. Occasionally she would take items out and look at them herself and maybe say a word or two about them.  She had the death memorial cards for two of her own children, photographs of her remaining family back in Scotland, letters from them and from her father (the gentleman that drowned). It was a treasure trove of personal possessions belonging to her and to her husband.

Sadly, after Grandmother died, my uncle (her youngest son) continued to live in the house. He had absolutely no interest in the family tree and would provide no information not even much regarding his war service. He was only ever interested in being in the pub with his friends. When he died, it left the house empty and it fell to his son to go through belongings and clear everything out.

At the funeral of my uncle, Mike, a female cousin and even my brother begged him to treat everything like gold dust, especially documents and photos. He knew the family tree was being done. He promised he would. He broke that promise. He went to the house and took anything of value in the way of furniture or china (which, in all fairness, he was entitled to do) and then walked away. He decided he did not want to go back anymore and he handed the key to the current landlord (after nearly one hundred years of family occupation) with instructions that the landlord could take everything to the dump. My cousin had simply emptied everything out into boxes without going through anything, sold the dresser and then washed his hands and walked away.  Like his father, he has no interest whatever in the family tree. Whatever my Grandmother treasured so much for the whole of her life was taken on the rubbish cart and is now buried in a land-fill site somewhere.

I was also asked, is there a grave? Well, there is certainly a grave  somewhere  but, so far, I have been unable to find it. I was told that Great-Grandfather had been buried where he drowned in Sussex. One cousin thought she recalled some mention of Hastings. I contacted the Records Office there and they checked for me for any burial of a person of his name at anytime during September 1906. They came up with a blank. This leaves a couple of other places in Sussex but where? The nearest place to where he drowned is Rye and I am still making enquiries down that avenue. Of course, his body might have been brought back to London to be interred near one of his children. Without knowing their addresses at the time and, bearing in mind that London has countless cemeteries, it would be almost impossible to find him. He does not appear on the National Burial Index volume 2 which is the current edition but that is incomplete, it is still being compiled and it will be a long time before all burials are entered onto it. I feel it unlikely that his body was sent back to Scotland although he did have brothers and sisters remaining there.

It would be nice to find a grave and know where he lies. I know so much about him from his birth to his death, that is the only missing detail now.

I pondered  in my previous entry how many poor souls were fished from the river or the sea and just given the verdict “Found Drowned” as my Great-Grandfather was, when that was not the whole story. By co-incidence I was reading of just such a case yesterday.

In February of 1863 a woman’s body was found floating in the Manchester, Bolton and Bury Canal. Lying on the canal path was a nightdress, a cloak and a nightcap. These items were taken by the police for safe keeping. A wedding ring was found on the body. Other than that, they were no clues as to who she might be. It seemed like a suicide because of the clothing lying on the towpath, but as nobody could identify her, nobody came forward to claim her or to state that she had been troubled in mind, the verdict given was - “Found Drowned.” She was buried in Salford cemetery at the expense of the council.

Some time later a woman named Julia Dunn visited the police because she was worried about the “disappearance” of her sister. She told the police that her sister was Mary Charles and she was married to Luke Charles, an ex-policeman who had served with both the Irish constabulary and then the Bury one.

Some weeks earlier this couple had left their dwelling to go and visit Mary’s mother in Ireland. Charles came back alone. Mary's sister made further enquiries of him but got evasive answers. A while later he went back to Ireland again - supposedly  to seek information from Mary’s mother but in reality to visit his lover, Ellen Ford. Ellen had been living in Salford where she set up home and “entertained” Luke. She then returned to her home in Ireland where she anxiously waited for Luke to come and marry her, unaware that he was already married to Mary.

The police became more and more suspicious and was sure that the body taken from the canal was that of Mary.  Luke Charles remained evasive. When his relationship with Ellen came to light and she was questioned she was amazed and very upset to find out he was a married man, the police were convinced that Mary had been “got out of the way” leaving him free to marry Ellen. Ellen confirmed that during his two visits to Ireland, Charles had been living with her. Charles could give no satisfactory answers to the many questions put to him and was sent for trial.

Questions remained unanswered. If he had killed her - how? Did he drown her at home and then carry the body to the canal. Did he somehow get her to walk to the canal wearing her nightdress and nightcap with only a cloak over the top of it? If so, did he smother her, remove what clothing she had and push her into the water. Did he push her into the water, hold her under, then take her out and remove her clothing and push her back in again? It seems unlikely she would have stripped herself. Could she have been drugged? I cannot tell you because I do not think the police actually knew themselves. The evidence was circumstantial but based on the lies he had told about what he had been doing, his lies to Ellen about being a single man, his inability to respond to police questions with honest and open answers, he virtually condemned himself.

The police were convinced that he had murdered his poor wife Mary in order to start a new life with Ellen with whom he was besotted. He did not admit murder but neither did he deny it. An innocent man would have tried everything to prove he was innocent. He did not.

He was found guilty of murder and hanged in January 1864.

So, the verdict of “Found Drowned” although very helpful to the family in cases of suicide because it meant a Christian burial, the payment of any insurance money and prevented a stigma attaching to such a family, it was also a very convenient cover-up for foul play. One wonders just how many poor wretches  met their deaths at the hands of others and did not receive justice.

Luke Charles paid the price. There must have been many others who did not. With a coroner’s verdict like “Found Drowned” in those days you could  literally get away with murder.

25 comments:

Anonymous said...

I like this one much more than the others, good though they were. There is more to think about in this one. Where will it end? Each have been better than the previous. Thank you.    Jim

Anonymous said...

Isnt it heartbreaking to think your uncle disposed of everything ,wonder what secrets the contents of your Grannys drawers would hold ,so many mysterys might have been solved ,was your Granny the daughter that visited and who the unsent telegram was for ?The other story was also very intriguing ,.,.,Jan xx

Anonymous said...

I know that things like that happen in families.  My mother always said that my grandmother kept a diary, but to this day we have never seen one...  Your family ties do mean alot but some just don't care.  Hopefully, our contributions to what we do know will continue to get passed on to future generations.  Our ancestors make up our chemistry and it's valuable information. Good story as always!  'On Ya' - ma

Anonymous said...

What a fascinating entry.  I can believe that about your cousin - can you believe my stepdad actually gave my mother's jewellery away to his lady friends as presents after she had died.  It was only at his funeral when we mentioned we couldn't find mum's things and described some things that were particularly sentimental that a lady friend of his piped up and told us she had them.  She kindly let us have them back but who knows who is walking about with mum's other jewellery.  I couldn't believe he had done it, it felt really wierd following his hearse in the car behind, having just found out he had done that.  I was so disappointed in him, he knew how we treasured anything of mums and it was only out of respect from him that we didn't ask for it before he died.  There was nothing that was that valuable but a lot of memories behind them.  I still find it hard to understand or to forgive him. Terry

Anonymous said...

"You don't know what goes on behind closed doors"

Anonymous said...

What a sad tale Jeannette. You must have been so angry at loosing your Grandmothers secret things for your cousin to do this was quite dispicable.  Love Joan.

Anonymous said...

very intersting story and yes it does sound like much could have come of that found drowned to cover up tings

Anonymous said...

I think every family has its little secrets , I know mine does or I should did, had been trying to fine out who my REAL father was for 60 years before my mother died, just knew his first name and that she worked as a maid for him ,,,,,,, that was it.... She also had a brown case with alot of papers in it and always wanted to know what the papers were, After she died no one knew what happen to it,  I don't think I could do that to my kids,   Guess thats life,,,,,,,,,,,,, DIANE

Anonymous said...

This was very interesting..Jeannette...thank you for always sharing the best and well written stories in j-land....hugs and love...
Joyce

Anonymous said...

I think you are right Jeannette about the 'found drowned' verdict covering up a lot of possible causes of death. Many murders must have gone undetected in the days before forensic science. You stories are very interesting. It is a shame that your grandmother's personal items were discarded so carelessly. Their must have been a wealth of information in them and much of sentimental value only. I hope your search for your great grandfather's place of burial is fruitful.
Kate.
http://journals.aol.co.uk/bobandkate/AnAnalysisofLife/

Anonymous said...

Fascinating..and I think you are right...I wonder how many "found Drowned" were murder victims...loved the graphic today..have a great weekend...
Lyn

Anonymous said...

Interesting entry. Enjoyed the read.
Have a nice weekend.
Hugs, Sugar

Anonymous said...

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((JEANNETTE))))))))))))))))))Wow,this is very intresting.I am sorry you didnt get to know very much about your familys history.It sounds so sad that nobody wanted to do a family tree.Are you searching for info?I hope you have a nice day.

Anonymous said...

So interesting...imagine all over the world ..how many of those incidents have happened ?  Someone has a family member totally disappear, never to be seen again.  Altho, like the children on the train, apparently no one even missed them.  I was thinking the other day, maybe their poor widowed mother was sending them to a distant realative to raise as she could no longer afford them. She wouldn't miss them as she felt they were safe with family and perhaps they weren't aware the children were even being sent to them.  All these mysteries..only eternity holds the answers.  Love your fall graphics.    Linda in WA  

Anonymous said...

That is such a shame that all your grandmother's personal belongings got destroyed. I am glad they got Luke Charles. Poor wife of his paid a dear price for that scoundrels folly.
About the moon picture, my camera has a 12 zoom on it and I used that . I made several shots but that was the best one. Have a nice weekend.
Hugs, Helen

Anonymous said...

Isn't it a shame how a death brings out the worst in some people? I know from experience that what matter most is the rememberance of the person themselves, a photo, a lock of hair...something simple that they valued.  Good writing...Sandi

Anonymous said...

Hello Jeannette.......I enjoyed your haunting tales they were quite spooky. I really think that your stories are perfect. I loved that you shared these haunted tales with us here at J-Land. Its feeling like Halloween with your journal. Thanks for your entries. Take care.

Anonymous said...

Your getting to be quite a story teller I love it!! bella xx

Anonymous said...

I expect there were many who used this as a cover up for foul play.  It must have been so much easier to get away with murder with the limited knowledge the police had back then.  Thankfully Luke Charles paid for his misdeeds.  What a shame your cousin blocked the way to your family tree research, it wouldn`t have hurt to let you have the docu,ents he didn`t want.  Keep up the good work Jeannette. :o)

Sandra xxxxx

PS:  If you have any more of these stories to share, I for one would thoroughly enjoy reading them. :o)

Anonymous said...

I haven't yet read your previous entry Jeannette, but if this is a taster, I will be paying you another visit, hopefully tomorrow. Loved this entry. Thanks for a really good read.
Love Sylvia xxx

Anonymous said...

How sad and incredibly selfish not to at least give someone else a chance to go through documents before sending everything to the trash heap!  Decades of history lost due to someone's lack of character and ability to care about anyone other than himself.  Anyone who cares at all about family and family history cannot even begin to understand such behavior.  I come from a family where no one kept any records that go back any further than my father's parents on that side of the family.  It's nearly impossible to trace back.  So very sad.
Kathy

Anonymous said...

That's simply terrible, Jeannette, all the photos and treasures were just tossed in the garbage.  I can't understand how people can be that cruel and thoughtless with personal family things.  Fascinating story about the lady.  I can see how Found Drowned was beneficial to burying suicide victims but also could be quite taken advantage of.  xx  Chris

Anonymous said...

very interesting entry...

Astra!

Anonymous said...

Interesting...you could write detective stories Jeannette!
Pam

Anonymous said...

aw yes.. well before CSI (crime scean investigators and a very popular tv show here)